Conflict Resoluton

My current masters degree course (Information Systems for Managers) is presenting me with challenges and conflicts on many levels. From a logistical perspective, I'm trying to find my groove in terms of scheduling productive study time (as opposed to staring at the page of a text book) alongside feeding time (necessary) and play time (voluntary). There's no quick fix for this and I just have to be mindful on a daily basis of the different pulls on my time.

The more troubing conflict is the approach to learning and assessment of the course itself. 75% of this unit will be awarded on the basis of a written exam taken at the end of this semester whereas my previous courses have been 100% assessment based. The idea of this terrifies me. Apart from the fact that only time I write is to sign credit card slips, the approach frustrates me as it contradicts my fundamental learning philosophy. Learning theory has evolved so much in the past 10 years that the concept of memerising facts and regurgitating them in a stressful timed situation seems all but archaic to me.

My learning theory guru, George Siemens, wrote recently;

... much of our learning is a connection-forming process (the conduit, not content, is what is king) where we add new elements that augment our capacity to know more. We rely on Google, libraries, friends, social bookmarks/tags, etc. to serve as our personal learning network (we store the knowledge external to ourselves). When we need something, we go to our network (know-where is more important than know-how or know-what)...or we expand our network. In the end, the constant act of connecting in order to stay current is a much more reflective model of learning ...

I couldn't agree more. Assuming I do manage to memorise enough relevant facts in order to pas the exam, there is no gurantee that I will I have made my "personal learning network" which will enable me to continue to learn about Infomation Systems.

Convenience Shores

Now that we have two young kids, gone are the weekends of white water rafting and trekking through remote jungles. OK, so we didn't do that Before Kids (BK) either but the point is that we could have!

We can now seek out destinations that involve large doses of relaxation without the guilty feeling that we should be doing something more active like diving with killer sharks. With this in mind, we recently spent four days on an island called Mactan, a one hour flight from Manila, at a manmade plantation style resort that boasts "one of the largest privately-owned waterways in the world". There indeed seemed to be water and pools everywhere. Our room overlooked a huge (filtered) saltwater 'lagoon' with an asphalt bottom that is drained and refilled every week. The 'beaches' surrounding the lagoons have the cleanest most perfect sand. Noticeably absent are sand creatures or washed up diapers. The 'diving rock' appeared to be made from plaster of Paris and would not look out of place at Disneyland.

Despite the un-naturalness of the place (or perhaps because of it), we had a really nice time. The service was probably the best we've experienced certainly in the Philippines and perhaps at any resort-type establishment. There is a strict no-tipping policy so you know that staff are not just being polite and helpful in the hope that you'll slip them a note and the food was very decent. Although the resort was supposedly full, somehow we never felt that there were many people around.

Mother Nature did provide the finishing touch though ... four days of almost unbroken sunshine. It made such a lovely change from Manila where it has been raining for so long that Scarlett had never seen the sun.

Anyway, enough words, now for some pictures:

Is Luc too young for a tatoo?

Last weekend we hosted a big barbecue party. The fun started around 3pm with the last revellers being shown the door 1am! I was worried that the kids would be bored so we brought in a 'tatoo artist' for the afternoon. He was a big hit. Here is Luc getting a dragon painted on his arm.

Angels

Don't they look cute napping together on the couch?!

Check out how curly Scarlett's hair is getting. Her mummy is very envious!

Beckham avoids paparazzi

Note: For those of you on distant shores, this clip gives you a sneak peak of our dining and living rooms.

Getting to know you

It's pointless rushing Luc to do anything. He does everything on his own terms when good and ready. Once he decided to walk at 13 months, that was it with barely a stumble. The same went for potty training.

No surprise then that he has waited until now to start taking notice of his sister. Their relationship is still a work in progress but he now talks to her (if you count telling her to stop crying because he can't hear the tv) and he even tries to interest her in his beloved car magazines.

Watch what you say!

Luc's bedtime ritual includes a couple of minutes after lights out where we talk about what the next day holds in store for him.

Recently, during one of these conversations, we were lying down and I told a sleepy boy, "You're going to wake up, get dressed, have breakfast, drive to school ...". Luc sat up straight in bed and asked "I'm going to drive to school?".

The heat is on

When it gets too hot playing in the garden, what fun to cool down with the sprinkler.

Got milk!

Look who's talking!

I asked Scarlett to say a few words to her growing fan base. Here's what she said:

Nobody said it was easy!

This entry has a dual purpose. Firstly, I'm experimenting how to upload video clips to the blog and secondly to let you hear Luc's favourite song at the moment. After our trip to Hong Kong, we were listening to Coldplay alot. Then one day out of the blue Luc started to sing 'Nobody said it was easy!'.

P.S. It's a very clever video!